There are so many variables that contribute to our present day happiness and success.  So many of us have what seems to be all the necessities required to attract that special someone, get that promotion, be successful in running a small business, gaining and maintaining life-long friends who want to be with us in good times and bad, etc.  But, for some reason, which we sometimes just don’t ‘get’ those things don’t happen for us.  Time after time that next step to close the deal eludes us.  It doesn’t make any sense when that happens to us and we wonder “where am I going wrong”, “what am I doing that is causing me to stop my own success?”  Believe me, I’ve been there and done that.  And, I know that many of you who are reading this have been or are in the same boat.

In my own case, there were several issues as a child, which I, at the time, thought were normal and experienced by everyone as all children do.  In those days nobody at school asked about your homelife or what was going on to make you so sad and distant.  Fortunately, today we do have counselors in schools who are on the look-out for such behaviors.  Kids are supposed to be happy and smiling, not morose and fearful.  My own past is undoubtedly the reason I became a School Counselor.  I did not want anyone to suffer the way I had suffered as a child.  And, I made a firm resolve when I became a mother to never, ever, abuse my children in any way.  I was really quite successful in that endeavor and my grown children are pretty well-adjusted and do not have the scars that I carried for so long.

However, who among us goes unscathed by teachers, other kids, society in general, or events that are harmful to us in some way?  I would venture to say just about no one.  Although, if the atmosphere in the home is conducive to building good self-esteem and self-love, the events in the outer world don’t hurt as much.  If the home is destructive to the child in some way, the external events that are bound to happen can cut like a sword and be extremely difficult to heal if they can or do ever heal, that is.

So, I know something happened to me, something bad and hurtful that colored my life for many years in one way or another.  When I became a teenager, knowing that what was going on at home and in school was not right, I began to build my self-esteem finally being able to compare myself to others while acknowledging my own accomplishments  and was able to prove that I was really much better than I was led to believe.  I had some very successful years and was quite proud of my accompishments knowing what I had to go through emotionally to get to that point.  Yet, there was something that prevented me from getting to the ultimate of whatever I thought was “success”.  I thought I had cleared the past from my mind and body, yet this happened to me again and again.   It wasn’t until I found and learned Energy Psychology that I was able to clear and finally release the old painful memories from my cells that were holding me back from being all that I could be.  I had finally begun clearing my Energy Body and that has made all the difference in the world.

I’m pretty sure that if you are not where you want to be or feel you are supposed to be at this time of your life, or are not enjoying your life and living the life you believe you were meant to live, SOMETHING HAPPENED TO YOU!  Yes, things are happening to us all the time, everyday, but how we cope with them and the attitude we have about them, our perception of them in relation to us and our lives, all comes from the SOMETHINGS THAT HAPPENED when we were children, usually under the age of six, but even up to around 10 or 12.  Those are the original events that overshadow and predict how we will fare when confronted later in life with events that are difficult for us to deal with.  Those original events and initiating events that are spawned from them can cause crippling mental and physical disease as well as ordinary panic and anxiety and other none-life-threatening symptoms.  They give birth to self-hatred, shame, and guilt, and, yes, ANGER, which is usually inner-directed and manifests as Depression.

I was able to believe in myself enough at a young age to know that my caretakers and teachers were doing something wrong and were wrong in their verbal evaluations of me.   I was not able to develop the self-esteem that I wanted, though, for many years.  I would go so far and then draw back because of some unconscious fear which I now have cleared with Energy Psychology.  But, every cloud has a Silver Lining and because of my past hurts I had the desire to help others and that is what I have done with my life, teach and counsel children, their parents, and anyone who has pain from the past, conscious or unconscious, that is keeping them from being fulfilled.

Yes, I’m pretty sure SOMETHING HAPPENED TO YOU that is holding you back from living the life of your dreams.  Because of that, I’m running a Summer Special so that I will be able to help you and others who want to clear the pain from the past that is overshadwing the events you are going through today.   I hope that you will take this opportunity to help yourself with Energy Psychology because it will work for you for the rest of your life.  I still use it on myself on a daily basis and I am thankful for it because I believe it is responsible for my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.  Energy Psychology is beyond talk therapy or anything else you have exerienced.  You can get there; I can help.  It’s my Life Purpose!