There are so many variables that contribute to our present day happiness and success.  So many of us have what seems to be all the necessities required to attract that special someone, get that promotion, be successful in running a small business, gaining and maintaining life-long friends who want to be with us in good times and bad, etc.  But, for some reason, which we sometimes just don’t ‘get’ those things don’t happen for us.  Time after time that next step to close the deal eludes us.  It doesn’t make any sense when that happens to us and we wonder “where am I going wrong”, “what am I doing that is causing me to stop my own success?”  Believe me, I’ve been there and done that.  And, I know that many of you who are reading this have been or are in the same boat.

In my own case, there were several issues as a child, which I, at the time, thought were normal and experienced by everyone as all children do.  In those days nobody at school asked about your homelife or what was going on to make you so sad and distant.  Fortunately, today we do have counselors in schools who are on the look-out for such behaviors.  Kids are supposed to be happy and smiling, not morose and fearful.  My own past is undoubtedly the reason I became a School Counselor.  I did not want anyone to suffer the way I had suffered as a child.  And, I made a firm resolve when I became a mother to never, ever, abuse my children in any way.  I was really quite successful in that endeavor and my grown children are pretty well-adjusted and do not have the scars that I carried for so long.

However, who among us goes unscathed by teachers, other kids, society in general, or events that are harmful to us in some way?  I would venture to say just about no one.  Although, if the atmosphere in the home is conducive to building good self-esteem and self-love, the events in the outer world don’t hurt as much.  If the home is destructive to the child in some way, the external events that are bound to happen can cut like a sword and be extremely difficult to heal if they can or do ever heal, that is.

So, I know something happened to me, something bad and hurtful that colored my life for many years in one way or another.  When I became a teenager, knowing that what was going on at home and in school was not right, I began to build my self-esteem finally being able to compare myself to others while acknowledging my own accomplishments  and was able to prove that I was really much better than I was led to believe.  I had some very successful years and was quite proud of my accompishments knowing what I had to go through emotionally to get to that point.  Yet, there was something that prevented me from getting to the ultimate of whatever I thought was “success”.  I thought I had cleared the past from my mind and body, yet this happened to me again and again.   It wasn’t until I found and learned Energy Psychology that I was able to clear and finally release the old painful memories from my cells that were holding me back from being all that I could be.  I had finally begun clearing my Energy Body and that has made all the difference in the world.

I’m pretty sure that if you are not where you want to be or feel you are supposed to be at this time of your life, or are not enjoying your life and living the life you believe you were meant to live, SOMETHING HAPPENED TO YOU!  Yes, things are happening to us all the time, everyday, but how we cope with them and the attitude we have about them, our perception of them in relation to us and our lives, all comes from the SOMETHINGS THAT HAPPENED when we were children, usually under the age of six, but even up to around 10 or 12.  Those are the original events that overshadow and predict how we will fare when confronted later in life with events that are difficult for us to deal with.  Those original events and initiating events that are spawned from them can cause crippling mental and physical disease as well as ordinary panic and anxiety and other none-life-threatening symptoms.  They give birth to self-hatred, shame, and guilt, and, yes, ANGER, which is usually inner-directed and manifests as Depression.

I was able to believe in myself enough at a young age to know that my caretakers and teachers were doing something wrong and were wrong in their verbal evaluations of me.   I was not able to develop the self-esteem that I wanted, though, for many years.  I would go so far and then draw back because of some unconscious fear which I now have cleared with Energy Psychology.  But, every cloud has a Silver Lining and because of my past hurts I had the desire to help others and that is what I have done with my life, teach and counsel children, their parents, and anyone who has pain from the past, conscious or unconscious, that is keeping them from being fulfilled.

Yes, I’m pretty sure SOMETHING HAPPENED TO YOU that is holding you back from living the life of your dreams.  Because of that, I’m running a Summer Special so that I will be able to help you and others who want to clear the pain from the past that is overshadwing the events you are going through today.   I hope that you will take this opportunity to help yourself with Energy Psychology because it will work for you for the rest of your life.  I still use it on myself on a daily basis and I am thankful for it because I believe it is responsible for my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.  Energy Psychology is beyond talk therapy or anything else you have exerienced.  You can get there; I can help.  It’s my Life Purpose!

In some parts of the world doctors get paid for preventing disease and keeping their patients healthy.  Wouldn’t that be a great thing to have here in the USA!  Unfortunately, our society has become obssessed with taking a pill for whatever ails ya.   They’re even creating diseases so that they can sell medicines to take the symptoms away.  That’s what most doctors are trained to do, take symptoms away.  Wouldn’t it be nice if we could get to the root cause of a disease and really heal that so that the symptoms would go away?  And, once that is done really work at preventing it from happening again by having a better diet, changing life-depleting life styles, improving health overall, and the like.

The American Medical Association has really done a terrific job in handling most emergency situations.  I would put myself in their hands if I needed emergency treatment.  They’ve got that down pat!  The AMA has done a wonderful job in many areas, but it’s the chronic disease area that is lacking.  We need to get help from people who are willing to see us as more than our bodies.  We need the whole being to be taken into account so that healing is happening on all levels.  Removing symtpoms works for a while and can make us feel better, but getting to the root cause of the problem and learning why we have the symptoms is the only way to go in order to heal.

German New Medicine and its offshoot, Meta-Medicine, are probably one of the best ways that we can not only heal, but also prevent disease.  What would that type of prevention look like?   Well, it could have many aspects among which would be meditation and introspection for starters.  If we could learn to examine our lives closely to understand and accept what is going on, how it is affecting us and how we feel and think about it, we would be much closer to warding off disease.  GNM and MM see the patient/client as a being consisting of body, mind, spirit, and emotions and work with all of those areas to bring about healing on the deepest cellular level possible.   MM goes further than GNM, which relies totally on the body to heal itself after resolving a trauma or conflict.  MM uses different therapeutic techniques such as EFT, NLP, and other energy processes to promote and assist the entire being in the healing of body, mind, and spirit.  Hence, it is a real Holistic Healing model.  MM practitioners, or Integrative Health Coaches, work with clients to help them make necessary changes in their diet, attitude, environment, and social circumstances, as well as helping the client not only find the conflict that is causing dis-ease but also resolving it in real-life terms as well as on the cellular level.

When we are aware of what we find unsettling or disturbing we are not in denial.  Awareness must come before any other step.  Living consciously promotes awareness.  Once we are aware we then accept what is happening but that doen’t mean we do nothing about it.  Of course, as the Serenity Prayer says, we do need to accept the things we cannot change, but we also have to have the courage to change the things we can.   When we accept we then need to move to action whether that means surrendering it to a Higher Power, ending a relationship, or changing jobs, action needs to be taken and goes along with acceptance.  Only then can we remove ourselves from the powerless victim stance.  We are then living from the Higher Self or Unlimited Self which is the authentic self, the real self, the powerful self.